The Link Between Sleep and Death - OBE's, NDE's, and Sleep Paralysis
Must give us pause."
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"We found it surprising that out-of-body experience with sleep transition seemed very much like out-of-body experience during near death," Nelson said
Sometimes called 'lucid dreaming' or 'astral projection', an Out of Body Experience (or OBE) is the experience of being fully conscious and functioning while being outside one's physical body. People who have experienced this often report sensations of floating, perceiving one's own physical body from a different place, and being able to direct or control one's experiences by using thoughts.
The few times I become consciously aware in my dreams I usually start jumping high. I find it fun. if I'm even MORE consious, I'll suspend in mid air, or fly around a bit.
Lately I've wondered: how far can I go? How high can I go? William Buhlman says I can go to outer space, to other planets. He's been there. I'm beginning to believe that, if I get more serious about this whole thing, I too might possibly travel very very far away...
Below is my journal entry from what is possibly my first OBE. I say possibly, because a few months have gone by and nothing like it has happened again. At the time I was very sure that it was an OBE, but now, I've had a few doubts. Even if it wasn't, however, it was still the most lucid dream experience of my life.
11/4/17
I transitioned into my first OBE from a lucid dream –the most lucid dream of my life.
I was with a friend in a desert scene. We were jumping for height and distance. This is something I do for fun whenever I become lucid to any degree in my dreams. I could jump higher than he… and I eventually decided to just stay in the air floating/flying. I told him I would teach him how to jump higher and asked him to follow me to the top of a nearby cliff. Once at the top, I told him “it’s easier than you think,” then I looked down the cliff at the sand about 100 feet below. At that point, I made a startling discovery. “Holy crap!!” I said to myself, “I’m totally present. I’m here! I’m really here!” “Wow,” I continued… “What should I do?” I looked back down at the earth below and said to myself, “I’m going to jump. And I’m going to totally let myself go. I don’t know what’ll happen, but I trust.”
I swan dived off the side of the cliff. As the earth approached me I didn’t get scared, I stayed calm. When I was 2 feet above the ground, I suddenly became suspended in mid-air. I also noticed lots of vibrations. Having experienced this through several practices is Buhlman’s “targeting” technique, I allowed myself to sink into it and for the vibrations to spread throughout my whole body. Everything got dark and I heard a pulsating sound.
When I opened my eyes, I was in my room! At the foot of my bed, to be exact. I looked over my shoulder and sure enough, there I lay, sleeping!!! I looked away quickly because I didn’t want to begin thinking about my body and thereby get pulled back into it (as Buhlman wrote). I closed my eyes and concentrated on something else. First thing that came to mind were my wife and kids (who were sleeping in the other room this night), so I focused on them. Again the vibrations, sounds and darkness. I opened my eyes in the hallway outside my bedroom door. I couldn’t see so well, so I called out, “Clarity now!” and I felt my consciousness drifting, so I also called out, “full awareness now!!”, just as Buhlman suggests. It worked. I could see things come into focus better, but honestly, it was still very hard to see, as it was very dark still. I started walking over to the room where my wife and kids were.
I found them awake on the bed. Compared to the whole environment, they were quite bright. I could see them well. “Can you see me?? I asked them. “Yes,” they said. “Wow! I’m asleep in the other room!” I exclaimed. “My body’s asleep over there! And here I am!!” They smiled.
I said, “Watch this, son!” and I stuck my hand into the wall, feeling the vibrations thereof. “Touch my arm!” I held it out and my son put his hand about 2 inches above my forearm and we both felt intense energy vibrations. Then I looked up at the ceiling and said to myself, “oh yeah, I can jump up there and get stuck in it.” So I jumped, and sure enough, my head got stuck in the ceiling. I couldn’t see what was on the other side.
Maybe next time!
After this I slipped back into a lucid dream and never got back to out of body.
I was reading Adventures Beyond the Body (click here for my review of it) a few months ago, at a very busy time in my life. I did not have any significantly large enough blocks of time to sit down and just read without interruption –you may know what life is like with small children in the house. However, this didn’t stop me from reminding myself constantly that “I have to read that book!” and picturing in my mind the physical location of the book, wherever it was at the time.
In the three weeks that I was repeating this to myself, I noticed something very interesting: twice in my dreams, I noticed that in the middle of it, whatever the environment or situation was, I’d suddenly recall that “I have to read that book!” and I’d quickly follow up by asking, “where is it?!” The first time, in my dream, I “remembered” that I had left it on the table that was located about 10 paces behind me. I turned around, walked over to the table, and sure enough, there it was! The second time, I was outdoors and I recall thinking very intently, “I need that book now!”, and it materialized right into my left hand.
I described these occurrences to Michael (another member of the SubtleRealm.org team) one day, and in the course of the conversation, an idea arose for a thought-experiment: for the next two weeks, instead of thinking “I need to read that book” repeatedly, I’m actually going to do some of the techniques suggested in that book; I’m going to think intently: “I am now out of my body!”, I'm going to demand “full awareness now!” and “clarity now!”. I repeated these affirmations several times a day, as often as I could remember, with as much conviction as I could muster.
I kid you not, on the night marking exactly 2 weeks from that conversation, I had the most lucid dream I’ve ever experienced in my life. And, even though I’m not 100% sure about this (more research and experience required), I may have even had my first out-of-body experience. I remember suddenly realizing that I was 100% present. I called out for “full awareness now!” and so it was. “I’m here! I’m here! I'm in the subtle world!” I called out in excitement. “Hmm… what should I do?”
I posted a description of my experience here.
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